Emotional Intensity Examples

A comprehensive guide to emotional intensity levels (0-100)

About these examples: This guide provides concrete examples for each emotion across the full intensity spectrum (0-100). Use these examples to understand how emotional intensity translates to real-world experiences when building your stories. Select an emotion below to see both positive (increasing) and negative (decreasing) examples side by side.

Admiration

Positive (Increasing Admiration)

0–5: Noticing a stranger's tidy handwriting.
5–10: Impressed by a coworker's organized desk.
10–20: Watching a peer give a solid, professional presentation.
20–40: Seeing an athlete break a personal record through grit.
40–60: Witnessing someone risk their own safety for a stranger.
60–100: Meeting a personal hero who exceeds every expectation.

Negative (Loss of Respect)

0–5: Noticing a small, lazy shortcut a mentor took.
5–10: Realizing a local "hero" is actually quite rude in person.
10–20: Finding out a peer plagiarized a small part of their work.
20–40: Watching someone you respected act with cowardice in a crisis.
40–60: Discovering your personal idol is a total fraud.
60–100: Total collapse of respect for a parent or mentor after a betrayal.

Adoration

Positive (Increasing Adoration)

0–5: A brief, warm thought about a pet while at work.
5–10: Smiling at a photo of a niece or nephew.
10–20: Watching your partner sleep peacefully.
20–40: A child saying "I love you" for the very first time.
40–60: Holding your newborn baby for the first time.
60–100: The lifelong, soul-deep bond with a lifelong partner.

Negative (Waning Love)

0–5: A minor pet peeve about a partner starts to grate.
5–10: Feeling "bored" while looking at a photo of a loved one.
10–20: Realizing the "spark" is missing during a quiet moment.
20–40: Feeling a cold distance from a child or spouse during an argument.
40–60: Realizing you no longer love someone you once worshipped.
60–100: The complete "death" of affection after years of emotional abuse.

Aesthetic Appreciation

Positive (Increasing Appreciation)

0–5: Noticing a nice color palette on a website.
5–10: Pausing to look at a well-designed logo or piece of clothing.
10–20: Walking through a curated art gallery.
20–40: Seeing a landmark like the Grand Canyon for the first time.
40–60: Witnessing the Aurora Borealis in person.
60–100: A "Stendhal Syndrome" moment where beauty is overwhelming.

Negative (Ugliness/Decay)

0–5: Noticing a beautiful painting is slightly crooked.
5–10: Seeing a pristine park covered in a little bit of litter.
10–20: Watching a beautiful sunset get choked out by smog.
20–40: Seeing a historic, beautiful building being demolished.
40–60: Witnessing a masterpiece of art being intentionally vandalized.
60–100: Seeing a once-beautiful natural paradise turned into a wasteland.

Amusement

Positive (Increasing Amusement)

0–5: A faint smile at a typo in a text message.
5–10: Chuckling at a mild pun or a "dad joke."
10–20: Laughing out loud at a well-written sitcom.
20–40: A friend telling a hilarious "you had to be there" story.
40–60: An uncontrollable, crying-laughing fit.
60–100: Laughing so hard you literally cannot breathe or move.

Negative (Loss of Humor)

0–5: A joke "dies" because someone explained the punchline.
5–10: Realizing a funny video was actually staged and fake.
10–20: A comedy show turning into a depressing political lecture.
20–40: Finding out a "funny" prank actually hurt someone deeply.
40–60: Trying to laugh during a tragedy and feeling nothing but emptiness.
60–100: The total loss of the ability to find joy or humor in anything (Anhedonia).

Anger

Positive (Increasing Anger)

0–5: Slight annoyance at a slow-loading webpage.
5–10: Being cut off in slow-moving traffic.
10–20: Finding out a sibling "borrowed" and broke something of yours.
20–40: Being blamed for a major mistake someone else made.
40–60: Discovering a partner has been lying to you for months.
60–100: A "blind rage" where you lose sense of time and logic.

Negative (Cooling Down/Apathy)

0–5: Taking a breath and realizing you overreacted to a slow site.
5–10: Accepting an apology for being cut off in traffic.
10–20: Deciding a sibling's mistake isn't worth the energy of a fight.
20–40: Reaching a "cold" peace after a heated domestic argument.
40–60: Forgiving someone for a massive betrayal (letting go of the rage).
60–100: Reaching total emotional numbness toward an old enemy.

Anxiety

Positive (Increasing Anxiety)

0–5: Briefly wondering if you left a light on at home.
5–10: Checking your watch when the bus is 2 minutes late.
10–20: Realizing you are unprepared for an upcoming meeting.
20–40: Waiting for a call back from a doctor regarding a test.
40–60: A full-blown, physical panic attack.
60–100: The agonizing terror of a missing child not being found.

Negative (Becoming Calm/Reassured)

0–5: Remembering you actually did turn the lights off.
5–10: Seeing the bus turn the corner after waiting.
10–20: Finding the notes you thought you lost before a meeting.
20–40: Hearing "It's benign" from a doctor after weeks of worry.
40–60: The sudden, overwhelming peace when a panic attack ends.
60–100: The absolute weightlessness of a "Missing" person being found safe.

Awe

Positive (Increasing Awe)

0–5: Looking at a particularly tall or old tree.
5–10: Watching a single, high-quality firework.
10–20: Standing under a massive, ancient cathedral ceiling.
20–40: Seeing the Milky Way in a truly dark, desert sky.
40–60: Looking at Earth from space (The Overview Effect).
60–100: A profound, life-altering religious or spiritual epiphany.

Negative (Disenchantment)

0–5: Realizing a "huge" tree is actually just average size.
5–10: Seeing the "magic trick" behind a massive firework display.
10–20: Finding out a "historic" cathedral is actually a 1990s replica.
20–40: Learning the scientific, mundane explanation for a "miracle."
40–60: Feeling "smallness" rather than "greatness" when looking at the stars.
60–100: The total "death of wonder" regarding the universe or life.

Awkwardness

Positive (Increasing Awkwardness)

0–5: A three-second lull in a phone conversation.
5–10: Mispronouncing a common word in a casual meeting.
10–20: Forgetting the name of someone you've met twice before.
20–40: Accidentally walking into the wrong restroom.
40–60: Being caught in a major, shameful lie.
60–100: Being walked in on during your most private, intimate moment.

Negative (Gaining Confidence)

0–5: Making a joke to break a 3-second silence.
5–10: Realizing everyone else mispronounced the word, too.
10–20: Laughing off the fact that you forgot someone's name.
20–40: Owning the mistake of walking into the wrong restroom with a grin.
40–60: Speaking your truth after being caught in a lie and feeling "clean."
60–100: Moving from total social shame to absolute, radical self-acceptance.

Boredom

Positive (Increasing Boredom)

0–5: Waiting 30 seconds for an elevator to arrive.
5–10: Listening to a weather report you've already heard.
10–20: A two-hour lecture on a topic you have no interest in.
20–40: Being stuck in a waiting room with no phone or magazines.
40–60: Being in solitary confinement for an afternoon.
60–100: Total sensory deprivation for days on end.

Negative (Becoming Stimulated)

0–5: Finding a funny doodle on a piece of paper.
5–10: A boring weather report suddenly mentions a coming storm.
10–20: A dull lecture suddenly pivots to your favorite topic.
20–40: Finding an old Gameboy in a boring waiting room.
40–60: The rush of adrenaline when "nothing" suddenly becomes "everything."
60–100: Coming out of long-term isolation into a world of color and sound.

Calmness

Positive (Increasing Calmness)

0–5: Taking one conscious, deep breath.
5–10: Sitting in a quiet room for five minutes.
10–20: A warm bath at the very end of a long day.
20–40: Meditating in a forest with zero city noise.
40–60: Feeling perfectly safe and relaxed under anesthesia.
60–100: Achieving a state of total Zen "Oneness" or Nirvana.

Negative (Becoming Agitated)

0–5: Hearing a faint, high-pitched ringing in a quiet room.
5–10: A fly buzzing around your head while you try to rest.
10–20: Someone playing loud music during your bath time.
20–40: A peaceful forest hike interrupted by a construction crew.
40–60: Being jolted awake from a deep sleep by a scream.
60–100: Total destruction of peace by an immediate, violent threat.

Confusion

Positive (Increasing Confusion)

0–5: Forgetting for a second why you walked into a room.
5–10: Trying to remember a celebrity's name on the tip of your tongue.
10–20: Reading a complex, jargon-heavy legal document.
20–40: Receiving contradictory directions in a foreign city.
40–60: Waking up with total amnesia in a hospital.
60–100: A complete psychotic break or "ego death."

Negative (Clarity/Epiphany)

0–5: Remembering exactly where you left your keys.
5–10: Finally "getting" a riddle someone told you.
10–20: A complex legal paragraph suddenly "clicking" in your mind.
20–40: A translator finally explaining what the foreigner meant.
40–60: Memories rushing back after a period of amnesia.
60–100: The "Ultimate Truth" revealing itself; everything makes sense.

Craving

Positive (Increasing Craving)

0–5: Thinking "a coffee sounds okay right now."
5–10: Seeing an advertisement for a snack you like.
10–20: Smelling fresh pizza when you haven't eaten all day.
20–40: Wanting a drink or cigarette after a very stressful day.
40–60: Intense physical withdrawal symptoms from an addiction.
60–100: Dying of thirst and seeing a mirage of water in a desert.

Negative (Satiation/Aversion)

0–5: Having one sip of coffee and feeling "done."
5–10: Seeing an ad for a snack and feeling slightly nauseated by it.
10–20: Eating so much pizza you can't stand the smell anymore.
20–40: Reaching a point in sobriety where the "urge" completely vanishes.
40–60: The feeling of fullness after being starved for days.
60–100: Total loss of desire for a substance that once controlled you.

Disgust

Positive (Increasing Disgust)

0–5: Seeing a small coffee stain on your favorite shirt.
5–10: Finding a single hair on an unused dinner plate.
10–20: Stepping in dog waste with your bare feet.
20–40: Smelling rotting garbage in a hot, enclosed kitchen.
40–60: Accidentally eating something infested with maggots.
60–100: Witnessing an act of extreme, inhuman cruelty.

Negative (Acceptance/Desensitization)

0–5: Deciding the coffee stain on your shirt "looks like a cloud."
5–10: Realizing the hair on the plate is actually just your own.
10–20: A medical student getting used to the smell of a cadaver.
20–40: A plumber becoming unbothered by raw sewage.
40–60: Finding "beauty" in something others find repulsive (e.g., bones).
60–100: Total immunity to being "grossed out" (e.g., a seasoned combat medic).

Empathetic Pain

Positive (Increasing Empathy)

0–5: Wincing when a character trips on a TV show.
5–10: Feeling "bad" for a friend who lost a five-dollar bill.
10–20: Watching a close friend get dumped by a partner.
20–40: Seeing someone cry inconsolably at a funeral.
40–60: Watching a parent lose their only child.
60–100: Feeling the collective, crushing trauma of a national tragedy.

Negative (Hardening/Schadenfreude)

0–5: Not caring that a fictional character tripped.
5–10: Feeling "they deserved it" when a rude friend loses five dollars.
10–20: Feeling zero pity when an ex-partner gets dumped.
20–40: Feeling a cold satisfaction watching an enemy cry.
40–60: Developing a "thick skin" to suffering after seeing too much of it.
60–100: Total loss of empathy; becoming a sociopathic observer.

Entrancement

Positive (Increasing Entrancement)

0–5: Glancing at a flickering candle for a moment.
5–10: Watching rain droplets run down a windowpane.
10–20: Watching a professional, high-skill ballet performance.
20–40: Being completely "lost" in a masterpiece of a film.
40–60: Being "hypnotized" by a truly charismatic speaker.
60–100: A complete loss of self-identity in a deep trance state.

Negative (Breaking the Spell)

0–5: Looking away from a candle to check your phone.
5–10: Noticing the "seams" in a movie's special effects.
10–20: Realizing a ballet dancer made a small technical error.
20–40: Noticing the manipulative tactics of a charismatic speaker.
40–60: Suddenly "snapping out" of a deep, daydreaming state.
60–100: Escaping a cult or "brainwashing" and seeing the reality.

Excitement

Positive (Increasing Excitement)

0–5: Getting a "See you soon!" text from a friend.
5–10: Hearing your favorite song start on the radio.
10–20: Heading to the airport for a long-awaited vacation.
20–40: Winning a few hundred dollars on a lottery ticket.
40–60: Jumping out of a plane for the first time (Skydiving).
60–100: Winning a life-changing, massive jackpot.

Negative (The "Crash")

0–5: A "See you soon" text is followed by "Wait, I'm late."
5–10: Your favorite song is cut off by a commercial.
10–20: Your flight to vacation is delayed by 12 hours.
20–40: Finding out your "winning" lottery ticket was for last week.
40–60: Being told you can't skydive because of bad weather.
60–100: Winning the jackpot only to have the bank seize it immediately.

Fear

Positive (Increasing Fear)

0–5: A floorboard creaking in a familiar, empty house.
5–10: Realizing you can't find your phone in your pocket.
10–20: Being followed by a growling, stray dog.
20–40: Realizing you are lost in a very dangerous neighborhood.
40–60: Being held at gunpoint during a robbery.
60–100: A near-death experience during a natural disaster.

Negative (Gaining Courage)

0–5: Realizing the "creak" was just the house settling.
5–10: Patting your other pocket and finding your phone.
10–20: The growling dog wags its tail and walks away.
20–40: Finding a familiar landmark while lost in a bad area.
40–60: Standing up to the person holding the gun.
60–100: Facing certain death and realizing you are no longer afraid.

Horror

Positive (Increasing Horror)

0–5: Seeing a large spider in the corner of the garden.
5–10: Hearing a sudden, unexplained loud crash in the kitchen.
10–20: Watching a graphic, bloody scene in a slasher film.
20–40: Finding a dead animal on your own doorstep.
40–60: Witnessing a violent crime happen in person.
60–100: Discovering a supernatural, cosmic nightmare scenario.

Negative (Normalizing the Macabre)

0–5: Realizing the "spider" is just a piece of lint.
5–10: Finding out the "crash" in the kitchen was just the cat.
10–20: Realizing a "graphic" movie scene is just bad CGI.
20–40: Realizing the "dead animal" is just a discarded fur coat.
40–60: Realizing the "crime" was actually a movie being filmed.
60–100: Reaching a state of "Gallows Humor" where nothing is shocking.

Interest

Positive (Increasing Interest)

0–5: Reading a headline about a potential new hobby.
5–10: Noticing a "Coming Soon" sign for a new neighborhood shop.
10–20: Starting a deep-dive into a new documentary series.
20–40: Having a "flow state" conversation about a deep passion.
40–60: Discovering a secret that changes your worldview.
60–100: Solving a "unsolvable" mystery of science or the universe.

Negative (Losing Focus)

0–5: Getting bored halfway through a news headline.
5–10: The "Coming Soon" shop turns out to be a boring bank.
10–20: A documentary becomes repetitive and dry in the second half.
20–40: Realizing your "passion" was just a passing hyper-fixation.
40–60: The mystery you solved turns out to be a boring clerical error.
60–100: Reaching a state of total "Apathy" where nothing is interesting.

Joy

Positive (Increasing Joy)

0–5: Finding a dollar bill in the pocket of an old jacket.
5–10: Getting a green light when you're in a bit of a hurry.
10–20: A surprise visit from a dear, old friend.
20–40: Receiving a glowing, unexpected performance review.
40–60: Marrying the love of your life.
60–100: Achieving a lifelong, "impossible" dream against all odds.

Negative (Melancholy/Sorrow)

0–5: Realizing the dollar you found is counterfeit.
5–10: The green light turns red just as you reach the line.
10–20: The surprise visit from a friend becomes an awkward confrontation.
20–40: A glowing performance review is followed by a layoff.
40–60: Finding out your spouse was only marrying you for money.
60–100: Having your greatest achievement erased or stolen.

Nostalgia

Positive (Increasing Nostalgia)

0–5: Seeing a toy in a store that you used to own as a kid.
5–10: Smelling a perfume your grandmother wore once.
10–20: Visiting your childhood elementary school playground.
20–40: Looking through a wedding album from 20 years ago.
40–60: Returning to a childhood home that no longer exists.
60–100: Being reunited with a "lost" parent after 40 years apart.

Negative (Severing Ties)

0–5: Throwing away an old toy without a second thought.
5–10: Realizing the "grandma perfume" actually smells terrible.
10–20: Visiting your old school and realizing it's small and ugly.
20–40: Tearing up old photos to finally "move on" from a past life.
40–60: Realizing your "happy" childhood memories were actually lies.
60–100: Total "erasure" of the past; choosing to forget who you were.

Relief

Positive (Increasing Relief)

0–5: Realizing you have 10 minutes left on a task timer.
5–10: Finding your misplaced glasses sitting on your own head.
10–20: Seeing a "Negative" result on a stressful medical test.
20–40: Being told a major car repair is covered by warranty.
40–60: Being rescued after being trapped for several days.
60–100: Learning a loved one survived a "fatal" plane crash.

Negative (The Return of the Burden)

0–5: Realizing the 10 minutes left on the timer isn't enough.
5–10: Finding your glasses, but realizing one lens is cracked.
10–20: A "Negative" test was a "False Negative"; you are actually sick.
20–40: The car repair warranty is denied on a technicality.
40–60: Being "rescued" only to be captured by a different enemy.
60–100: Learning the loved one survived the crash, but died in surgery.

Romance

Positive (Increasing Romance)

0–5: A brief, meaningful moment of eye contact.
5–10: Receiving a polite, sincere compliment on your appearance.
10–20: A long, lingering, and meaningful first kiss.
20–40: A perfect candlelit dinner with deep, soul-baring talk.
40–60: Declaring "I want to spend forever with you" and meaning it.
60–100: A "Twin Flame" connection that defies all logic or time.

Negative (Heartbreak/Coldness)

0–5: A romantic look is interrupted by a cell phone ringing.
5–10: A compliment that feels "rehearsed" or "fake."
10–20: A first kiss that is clumsy and has zero chemistry.
20–40: A candlelit dinner that turns into a breakup conversation.
40–60: Realizing your "soulmate" has been cheating the whole time.
60–100: The total "Death of Love"; seeing a partner as a total stranger.

Sadness

Positive (Increasing Sadness)

0–5: A minor, likable character in a book passes away.
5–10: Finishing a "good" TV series and feeling it's over.
10–20: Dropping a birthday cake you spent hours baking.
20–40: Hearing that a distant but well-liked relative passed.
40–60: The death of a spouse, child, or life partner.
60–100: Total, inconsolable despair and loss of hope.

Negative (Healing/Happiness)

0–5: Realizing the book character's death was actually a "fake out."
5–10: Finding a new TV series to replace the one you finished.
10–20: Realizing you can bake a better cake in half the time.
20–40: Finding a beautiful way to honor a relative who passed.
40–60: The first time you laugh after losing a spouse.
60–100: Total "Resurrection" of the spirit after deep clinical depression.

Satisfaction

Positive (Increasing Satisfaction)

0–5: Closing all the extra tabs on your internet browser.
5–10: Finally untying a very difficult knot in a string.
10–20: Finishing a 1,000-piece puzzle after several days.
20–40: Seeing a "Paid in Full" notice on a major life loan.
40–60: Retiring after 50 years of hard, honest work.
60–100: Achieving total, absolute self-actualization.

Negative (Failure/Frustration)

0–5: Your browser crashes right after you close all the tabs.
5–10: The knot you untied was actually holding something important.
10–20: Realizing the 1,000-piece puzzle is missing the final piece.
20–40: The "Paid in Full" notice was sent to you by mistake.
40–60: Retiring only to realize you have no money and no hobbies.
60–100: Realizing your "Life's Work" was actually harmful or useless.

Sexual Desire

Positive (Increasing Desire)

0–5: Briefly noticing that a stranger is conventionally attractive.
5–10: A brief, suggestive glance from someone you like.
10–20: Intense, heavy flirting with a brand-new crush.
20–40: A heavy, passionate make-out session.
40–60: All-consuming, overwhelming physical passion.
60–100: A primal, transcendental physical and soul connection.

Negative (Turn-off/Loss of Libido)

0–5: An attractive stranger says something very ignorant.
5–10: A suggestive glance is followed by a gross comment.
10–20: Intimacy is ruined by a bad smell or poor hygiene.
20–40: A make-out session is cut short by a terrible argument.
40–60: Total loss of attraction to someone because of their character.
60–100: Total sexual aversion or "shutting down" of that part of the self.

Surprise

Positive (Increasing Surprise)

0–5: An unexpected notification sound from your phone.
5–10: A lightbulb in the room burning out suddenly.
10–20: A friend jumping out from a corner to "scare" you.
20–40: Finding out you won an award you didn't even enter.
40–60: An unexpected "Total Loss" of a home to an accident.
60–100: Finding out you are the secret heir to a massive throne.

Negative (Predictability/Status Quo)

0–5: Hearing a notification you already expected.
5–10: Knowing the lightbulb would blow because it's been flickering.
10–20: Seeing your friend's shoes peeking out from behind the corner.
20–40: Finding out you "won" an award because your dad bought it.
40–60: Watching your home burn down but feeling like "of course this happened."
60–100: Realizing your "secret heir" status was a prank or a scam.